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Fantasy Dating Phone Tips

A phone call can mean a lot of things. Thankfully, most of them are good. If a guy calls, you can be pretty sure that:

• He’s interested in you

• He has the stones to bypass the electronic communication and make contact – voice to voice

• He probably wants to go out with you

The thing is, when he does call, you gotta play it cool. Here are some phone tips:

Don’t Call First. We hate to club you over the head with the whole Caveman Theory, but if it wasn’t true, we wouldn’t bother repeating it. Guys want to be in control. They want to make the first move. They want to be the leader of the pack.

So let them make the first call. If they don’t, you know they’re not that into you. And that’s fine. Just move on and find another one. Say it with us ladies, “NEXT!”

Not enough to convince you? Here’s the bottom line. If you call him, you:

• Take the joy out of his caveman kill

• Won’t know if he’s into you or not

• Won’t get to collect your three points

Alternate calls. This should be very simple. Just because he calls you once, it doesn’t mean you can put flyguy on speed dial and ring him up every time you think of him. If your last conversation was a call you returned, let him be the next one to call.

When he calls you, return the call. (As long as you’re truly interested in him. Remember no faking just to jack up your points!) Be your cool, calm and collected self. If he asks you out and you like him, accept. Do whatever pleases you – remember this is your game. But after you hang up, don’t call him again.

Remember, less is more. Alternate calls. As long as you stick to that rule, you’ll be golden.

No message = No response. Seriously. Here’s why:

• It could be a misdial. It doesn’t happen often, but it does happen. How would you feel if you called him back and he said, “I didn’t call you”?

• If he doesn’t think you’re worth leaving a message for, then he doesn’t deserve a call back.

• You don’t ever want to have to ask, “Did you call me?” It’s embarrassing. Let a guy show you where you stand right off the bat.

The bottom line is, you want date someone who is into you. A guy who is into you will definitely leave a message for you because he wants to talk to you. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve.

Know When to Quit. It’s simple, if he doesn’t call you, you can’t call him. It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone on a couple great dates and he already invited you to his mother’s birthday party. If he stops calling, you stop calling.

It doesn’t matter if you think you had the greatest connection when you met and that all you need to do is get on the phone and then he’ll hear your voice and realize you’re the woman of his dreams.

It doesn’t matter if he’s the smartest, most gorgeous, funniest, most interesting guy on the planet, if he’s not calling you, you can’t call him.

You’ll look desperate. And desperation is not pretty.

Play it with confidence – let the calls come to you! (And watch your points rack up!)

xoxo,

FD

Comments

  1. Lindy

    March 8, 2013

    You forgot to warn against drunk dialing! NEVER drunk dial! We should deduct points for that!

  2. JillP

    March 11, 2013

    I think these are good guidelines but it’s never that cut and dry. You gotta go with your gut!

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