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Fantasy Dating Question: What Are Your Basic Needs?

A big part of dating is getting to know yourself. It helps to know your wants and needs and things like why you do or don’t react in certain ways in certain situations and how you love and how you like to be loved.

In an episode of Oprah’s “The Next Chapter,” Oprah attended a Tony Robbins seminar. During the seminar, he identified “Six Basic Needs.” They are:

Certainty

Uncertainty (the need for adventure)

Love

Significance

Contribution

Growth

He asked the audience to determine which were the two driving needs in their lives. Then he asked the audience to think about what those two needs were costing them.

Knowing your basic needs can help you navigate the Fantasy Dating playing field. For example, my driving needs are love and growth. The price of letting love drive my life is that sometimes I’ll push other things aside for it. The price of growth driving my life is that a lot of times I’ll be so focused on my goals that I don’t see what’s going on around me. So, because I know I can become laser focused (on either love or work), I have to extra careful to maintain a balance between love and work.

What are your two driving Basic Needs? Do they have a price?

xoxo,

FD

Comments

  1. Amy D

    October 6, 2012

    Love and certainty. I need to be loved and I need to know that everything will be fine, even when it isn’t.

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