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Good Places to Meet Singles

People constantly ask, “Where can I meet good men?” and “Where are the quality women?” The answer is everywhere. We even created this game to prove it. When meeting singles, it’s not so much about where you do it, but how you present yourself and take chances that counts.

For example, if you zoom in and out of your farmer’s market every weekend, you may miss out on meeting on quality people who are also shopping or someone who is selling amazing heirloom tomatoes.

Take a few extra minutes to enjoy yourself. Put your phone away. Smile at the people around you. Ask questions like, “Have you ever seen such a big zucchini?” or “How do you like to prepare brussel sprouts?”

One of the keys to meeting people is to slow down. Remember that wherever you go. There are single people everywhere including the mall, the dry cleaners, the ice cream parlor, concerts, the gym, county fairs and the beach. It’s up to you to be approachable.

For example, if you go to the same bar and sit at the same table, with the same group of women every weekend, you’re likely to get the same results. When women huddle up together, men do not want to approach them. It’s intimidating and they’ll always worry about that one girl who will roll her eyes.

Approaching someone takes enough courage. Don’t make it Mission Impossible. If you like to go to bars, make it easier for people to approach you. Sit at the bar, by yourself, and say, “Hi” to the people around you.

The great thing about bars is that they’re not just for drinking. Instead of grabbing fast food for lunch, make a point of going to a restaurant and sitting at the bar. Whether it’s a sushi bar or a steakhouse bar, the people who sit there generally do so because they would like to interact with other people. Chat with the bartender. Ask the person next to you how they’re enjoying their meal. Be open and people will notice you.

Keep these tips in mind and as you work your daily routine, work your Fantasy Dating game. And when you find yourself asking, “Where will I find him/her?” Remember, it’s not so much where, it’s how you will find them.

xoxo,

FD

Comments

  1. August 12, 2013

    I’ve never had a problem meeting guys! Just be friendly!

  2. Brad Levas

    August 12, 2013

    I ALWAYS eat at the bar. It’s the easiest way to meet people. Breakfast, lunch, dinner – it doesn’t matter what meal it is. I sit at the bar and socialize. At the least, it’s a great way to establish a relationship with the bartender and it’s always smart to know your bartender. They know everything about everyone.

    • fdadmin

      October 2, 2013

      Ladies, do you HEAR the man?! Sit at the bar and socialize. Thank you, Brad Levas, for chiming in!

  3. LuciousLush

    August 27, 2013

    When I am waiting in line (for just about anything – my coffee at Dunkin Donuts, the 77 bus, check out at the grocery store, my turn to swipe in at the security point at my big multi-business office building), I tend to get chatty out of sheer boredom. That’s a great opportunity for me, as I am basically at a social peak and I am liable to small talk about just about anything just to keep myself entertained. If there’s in interesting guy in the line, all the better! BUT, it’s a short window of opportunity (darn that good customer service and those quick-moving lines!) so if I want and introduction to go anywhere, I have to move fast.

    • fdadmin

      October 2, 2013

      Chat away LuciousLush! That’s how you score all those points. And yes, you have to be fast. That’s part of what makes Fantasy Dating so much fun! Rock on girlfriend!

  4. Singles Warehouse

    January 15, 2014

    Easiest way to meet people is to start a conversation. Look around next time you are sat at Starbucks – whats going on? Anyone alone? Say “Good Morning” or something.

    You’ll meet loads of new people and singles along the way.

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