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Know Your Non-Negotiables

When Fantasy Dating, it’s important to understand what you’re looking for. That means really thinking about and writing out your non-negotiables. After all, you can’t find what you’re looking for if you don’t know what you’re looking for, right?

Ask yourself:

What characteristics must a man have? For example: Does he have to want children? Does he need to keep a clean home? Must he always do what he says he will? Must he take responsibility for his actions? etc.

Here’s where your past comes in handy. (Believe it or not, there is a reason you’ve gone through what you’ve gone through. It’s to make sure you don’t do it again!) Use your past experiences to determine what characteristics are deal breakers and what you’re willing to let slide.

Then write out 10 non-negotiable characteristics of your dream guy.

Once you write them out, use them as a scorecard for the guys you date. For example, when you’re wondering if a guy you’re dating might or might not be a long term guy for you, compare him to your list. Ask yourself:

-Does he meet all my non-negotiables?

-Where does he lack?

-Where does he score big?

-How do I feel about that?

Use this criteria to decide whether or not to continue dating him. The last thing you want to do is waste your time. And just as importantly, his. After all, it’s not fair to date someone if you’re not really into him.

So, what are some of your non-negotiables?

xoxo,

FD

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