It’s not always easy to tell if someone is into you. Especially if you’re seriously crushing on someone and don’t want to believe that he doesn’t feel the same way. Sometimes, you might avoid signs he’s not into you because you really want to believe he is. We get it. It’s not always easy to face the truth.
To make it easier, here are seven signs he’s not into you.
1. He doesn’t call.
This may sound like a no-brainer, but be honest with yourself. Who calls who? Do you always find yourself calling him
? Or does he make the majority of contact? If he calls you often, it’s because he likes you. But if you find yourself having to chase him down, cut him loose.
2. He doesn’t listen.
A guy who is crazy about will you soak up every word you say. He’ll ask you how your big meeting went. He’ll bring up that crazy family story long after you told him. He’ll remember your favorite song.
So, if you’re dating someone who is more interested in the TV than you or if your guy’s eyes glaze over when you start to tell him about your day, say, “goodbye.” You deserve better than that.
3. He doesn’t take interest in what you’re interested in.
Fantasy Dater, JennyP28, is a writer. When the guy she’s dating heard that she loved to write, he asked her if he could read some of her work. She told him she had written two manuscripts and asked which one he’d like to read. He answered, “Both.”
Then he actually read them. That’s when she knew she had seriously scored.
So, watch out for guys who don’t show interest in your singing, writing, running or whatever it is that you love to do. You might want to point yourself in another direction and find someone who thinks everything you do is fabulous.
4. He flakes.
Someone who really likes you does not want to let you down. So, if he says he’s going to take you to a concert or he says he’s going to call you at a certain time, and he doesn’t, it means he doesn’t care if he lets you down. When your guy never flakes, you’re on the right track.
5. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or family.
If you’re dating someone who keeps you a secret, he’s not into you. You deserve to be with someone who is proud to be with you. If he’s not showing you off, move on.
And if your guy only calls on the way home from being out with his friends, you know what he’s looking for (and it’s not a girlfriend).
6. He pulls away when you try to hold his hand.
Hand holding may sound silly, but it’s huge. If he refuses to hold your hand in public, he’s not into you. Remember, when a guy is into you, he’ll want to show you off.
7. He won’t call you his “girlfriend.”
When a man is willing to get naked with you and spend time with you, but he won’t call you his girlfriend, he’s not into you. A guy who is into you will call you his girlfriend
because he wants to let the world know you are his and that he has plans for you.
You deserve a guy who is excited to claim you as his girlfriend. If he doesn’t, move on and keep Fantasy Dating
. Remember, dating is a numbers game
. The more you date, the closer you will get to finding someone who actually deserves someone as awesome as you.